A singles ward that some of my friends attend just instituted a dating program for their ward. While I don't have all the details, these are two details that I know about:
For the sisters, ask 12 boys out in the next 12 months.
For the Brothers, go on 18 dates in the next 3 months. 6 of them should be second dates or more.
The first part, women asking on a date a month, is a good idea. Maybe not quite that many, but women should not be worried about asking a guy out. Stop dancing around the issue, hoping we will ask you out. If you want to go on a sate with us, ask us!
The second is extreme. Start out small, like one date a week (Which is still a lot!) and then move on from there. 1.5/week? Sheesh!